RELATIONSHIP TIPS
CHEATING - CAUSES OF INFIDELITY
As long as there have been men and women and as long as they have been dating, we have been engaged in this debate: When you are in a monogamous relationship, what constitutes cheating? Where do you draw that line? And is there a gray area? There was a time when cheating had a simple definition; like the kind of the Scarlet Letter. But nowadays, both men and women are more complex and less tolerant of betrayal of any sort in a committed relationship. And when it comes to men and women, we probably differ vastly when it comes to what we perceive as cheating. So, off come the gloves – here are seven relationship traps that you may or may not define as infidelity. It's up to you to decide
Confiding in a Friend of the Opposite Sex
Most guys would probably say no way is this cheating. They may understand that their girlfriends are delicate, emotional creatures that need to talk things out to death. And better with some other poor guy than with himself, right? But, many women actually feel threatened by their man confiding in friend of the opposite sex. Connecting with another woman on an emotional level can be even worse than connecting on a sexual level. What do you need to say to this other woman that you cannot share with your girlfriend? It has been called emotional cheating and it can be more hurtful than one night of torrid, drunken sex with an anonymous woman from the bar.
Dancing Closely
In many cultures, dancing is considered a very sensual act. That's why so many people probably think dance clubs are a great place to pickup. This is one that most guys and girls can see eye to eye on. If you are at a nightclub, grinding sexually with someone other than your significant other, there is bound to be trouble.
Flirting
Flirting is such a natural act between men and women. Most confident individuals, in a secure and comfortable relationship don't mind their man/woman joking around or engaging in a little innocent flirting. Admit it, you probably do it all the time. But if the conversations are sexual and the flirting is with the intent of eventually "getting some," then you have definitely crossed the line.
Going to Strip Clubs
There are some people who think that going to a strip club in and of itself constitutes cheating. But there are those who are more accepting and will allow their partner to enjoy a guys or girls night out at the rippers.The problem arises when your committed boyfriend/girlfriend pays to touch a stripper. If you have to go to a strip joint to touch another person sexually, then there's a problem with the relationship. I think it is cheating, no doubt... Then again, I'm a woman.
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